Personal Development Plans

December 23, 2009

Personal Development – Break Through Barriers and Achieve the Impossible

Grow revenues, increase profits, develop more products, improve customer service, reduce costs, increase prices…and you must work on all these items in your business at the same time. Do any of these items bear resemblance to your 2008 goals?

The first quarter of the year is ending, and now is a good time to reflect on the progress you have made toward reaching your business (or personal) goals.

Right now, do they seem impossible to reach; are you losing your grasp on them? How about considering a new approach to your goal planning?

I have found over the years that many people don’t like planning. They don’t even like mention of the word! Planning means work; hard work. People mean well, but it’s so easy to get distracted by the daily challenges of our work and home lives.

Maybe there’s something deeper at work if you haven’t made satisfactory progress toward reaching your goals. Could it be that your goals aren’t exciting to you? Maybe they’re too abstract, or perhaps you’re not the type of person that’s passionate about “profits”, etc. You might even harbor self-beliefs that it’s impossible to achieve your goals.

Most goal planning programs suggest you set a probable goal with interim milestones to keep track of your performance (think monthly or quarterly). Even though I emphatically condone this method of achieving outcomes, I want you to stretch yourself and think about accomplishing something that you currently think is impossible. Is that exciting to you? Does it make your heart race? Good!

Now, I’m not talking about doing something humanly impossible, like flying off a building with mechanical wings. What I am asking you to do is look at areas in your life where you’ve become resigned that your ideal desired outcome or “way of being” is impossible. These places could be your business, your job, or even personal issues. You might think the task is physically or mentally impossible for you to achieve, you’ve made up your mind this just can’t be done (by me)! Examples of such things are:

1. Double your sales or income this year.

2. Lose 20 pounds

3. Go on a 4-week vacation

Before you can achieve the seemingly impossible, you must break through the barriers of resistance that tell you can’t achieve something. This powerful “shadow belief” is sabotaging your ability to successfully achieve your goals. So, let’s eradicate them!

To break through the barriers of resistance you are feeling, you first have to do some simple research about what you want in your life, in a business or personal sense. Ask yourself the following questions:

1. “If I had more time, I’d…”

2. “If I could I’d…”

Finishing those statements gives some substance to things you want to accomplish, but may seem impossible because of current circumstances in your life. The actual activity on the surface may not seem impossible, but, if I asked you about making plans to do them, you’d stammer something like, “There’s no way I could do that!” But, other people do these things, right? Somehow, they accomplished the same things you desire, and I bet you’ll agree with me it probably wasn’t simple or easy for them. Undoubtedly, they first had to have a vision of what they wanted their life to look like, and they had to overcome the internal barriers holding them back.

ACTION POINT

Describe your ideal vision about what you want your business or personal life to look like in the next year, how you want to “be”. Describe it in as many ways as you can see it. What changes will you see in your life when you accomplish your vision?

This is a great first step to take, because it helps you become aware of what you want. It’s almost impossible to achieve your dreams and visions if you haven’t articulated them clearly in your mind. By creating a clear vision of what you want, even if you think it is impossible right now, helps to set you on a path toward accomplishment. Why? Because half the battle is breaking through the resistance, you may currently feel about the impossibility of your goal and vision.

Even if you don’t achieve your goals exactly as you defined them in the next year, by playing the game with passion, and a desire to win, you’ll certainly make progress toward achieving your dreams. After all, a championship tennis player doesn’t know if he will win every major tournament. But, like any champion, when they lose a game, they continue to play and reap the rewards.

What do you think is impossible? Go for that in 2008.

Copyright 2008 Bonita L. Richter. All rights reserved.

November 24, 2009

What Is Personal Development And Is It Right For Me?

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Personal development may turn a lot of people off because of its image. You always see these self-proclaimed gurus, peddling their tape sets and e-books, telling you that you can be happier, become a millionaire, lose weight, learn to use superhuman powers and read “War And Peace” in 15 minutes… if you’ll just buy their CD set or e-book!
It’s no wonder this can turn people off. Personal development might seem tacky or new-agey to you, but if you look a little more closely at what they have to offer you, you might find something very useful there.
“Personal development” basically means working on yourself. That’s it. It’s a pretty general category. It’s something that athletes, artists, celebrities and business owners all to in order to achieve their personal best at what they do. If you consider simply that personal development means doing what you do the best you can, it starts to make a lot more sense.
Maybe you don’t want the Maharishi’s 10-Day Weight Loss Hypnosis Program, or the Brainwave Machine that unlocks the millionaire giant within; but what about some tips and strategies to help you use your time better, deal more effectively with difficulties in your professional life, or improve your skills and abilities? Here are some common subtopics in the wide field of personal development.
Coping strategies. Stress is no joke. Little things that happen everyday can cause you a lot of frustration and health trouble. Everybody has their way of dealing with stress, but personal improvement can help offer you some new ideas for how to deal with little daily difficulties.
Getting the most out of everyday. Everybody could use more time in their busy lives. But honestly, if you had more free time, don’t you think you’d end up wasting it somehow? We don’t need MORE time; we need to use the time we have more effectively. Everybody I know could use a little help getting organized!
Overcoming personal problems. We all have little things that keep us from doing what we want to do, and they differ from person to person. Have you ever heard the saying “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom always to tell the difference?” Personal development can help you figure out how to deal and live with your own personal problems.
Dealing with difficult people. You are bound to have to deal with people at your job or in your family that give you a major headache. You can work on yourself so that you can handle other people and not let little things get to you.
Working around life’s obstacles. Things aren’t ever going to go the way you’ve planned, and you will always face difficult times. Personal development can teach you ways that you can handle life’s crises without destructive consequences. Nobody can totally go it alone.
Increasing your brain power. In your everyday life, you only use a small fraction of your brain. Wouldn’t you like to improve your memory, control your mind and get more out of your grey matter? Personal development can show you all kinds of new ways to use your brain. There’s a lot going on there that you don’t know about!
Probably the most important thing personal development has to offer is a way to stay positive. It’s not always easy to do. It’s much easier to develop negative patterns of thinking that only drag us down in the muck.
If you’re a skeptic, like me, surf the net a little and see what you find. Don’t be close minded; personal development may have something to offer you.

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